Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Right to Life


This post will be a bit different from my usual musings. Normally I'm full of stories about my life and family, but with non-stop politics swirling around it is difficult to concentrate on much else.

Rarely will you find me in a political debate, because whatever I have to say is probably not going to sway anybody's opinion. Most political views are based on our upbringing and our experiences in our own little corners of the world. Nobody has walked in my shoes, or I in theirs. An issue I feel strongly about because of my life experience may be offensive to others. So, I am not putting this out there to change anyone's mind, but rather to share with my friends and family a little bit of what makes me tick.

I guess you could call me a "Right to Lifer." My religious beliefs and my choice of career bear out that statement. The sanctity of life is central to my religion. Taking care of others is my calling, and trying to keep them healthy is in my soul.

One of my grandchildren with Andy, Lachelle, has Down Syndrome and she truly is a blessing.

I am not in favor of abortion.

But, in my mind, "Right to Life" should take into consideration more than fetuses.

How about the people in this country who are dying because they can’t afford proper medical care? What about THEIR right to life?

How about the adults and children who may have their lives shortened because of lack of nutrition? What about THEIR right to life?

I don't even want to get started on the subject of young service members dying in a war that increasingly appears to have been started on false pretexts, not to mention the troops who return alive but are cared for in horrific conditions. What about THEIR right to life?

My job as a school nurse is not about bandaids and boo-boos. I see silent suffering and the effects of poverty on a daily basis. One great need in my clinics, as well as nationwide, is affordable dental care. There are children dying because of lack of dental care, not because of parental neglect, but because of the prohibitive cost of dental treatment and dental insurance.

Senior citizens have to choose between paying for their medicine and paying for food.

Because of all of this, I find myself with one "right to life" debate weighing in one hand, and another "right to life" debate weighing in the other hand.

My vote is, in part, going to depend on which hand weighs the most.



8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Beautifully written, my dear friend.

Tanja said...

Stella, what a great, great post!

I'm not in favor of abortion, unless there are lives at stake, or in case of child rape or a situation that terrible. Otherwise, I'm pro life.
But indeed, what about the other rights to life?

I wish you would send this post in somewhere. It touched me, and I hope it will to others too.

Tanja

Anonymous said...

Hi Stephanie....as you probably know...I am non-religious..but yuor post is very compelling to me..in a good way...Your compassion, love for people and all the other stuff..just Rocks!!! I do not always believe in 'the right of life' when it comes to babies...but that is not the point.

You have in a very eloquent way...raised a lot of important topics.

People who have YOU in their lives, are truly blessed, because of your compassion and love.

Keep it going,
huggie
Anja

Stella said...

Miss 'Natasha,' Tanja, and Anja, thanks for your nice words! :) I was a bit afraid to put this out there. I'm a lover, not a fighter! LOL.

I wouldn't begin to know where to send this post to, Tanja. Do you have any ideas? But please feel free to share it, and spread the word about the plight of so many people in the U.S. ... particularly the working poor.

(((HUGS)))
Stella

Sari said...

Stella, thanks for this post. I agree so much.

Tanja said...

Stella, try a blogcarnival.com
They have several different categories, and I'm sure this post would fit in in one of them.

I entered one of the dating stories, and I got many readers off of there. Unfortunately, no one commented, as I'm kind of curious about my readers.

Tanja

Sari said...

Stella, I copied part of this and put a link on my blog to this particular post. Let me know if that's not OK and I'll take it down.

Thanks!

Stella said...

It's fine, in fact I'm very flattered! :)

Love,
Stella